Responsibility, Accountability, Ownership

How Responsibility, Accountability, and Ownership
Foster a Mutually Respectful and Productive Workplace

1. Responsibility
The first step in fostering a productive workplace is to clearly communicate responsibilities. While this may seem straightforward, it’s often more challenging than it appears. (That’s why, as an HR consultant, one of my top recommendations is frequently to update job descriptions!)

Job descriptions are crucial—they guide both the hiring process and performance management. Similarly, project kick-offs are essential moments for leaders to clearly define expectations.

Consider these questions:
Have I clearly defined each role?
Does the employee have an up-to-date and accurate job description?
Have I outlined the scope of responsibility for key projects?

2. Accountability
The second step is ensuring employees are meeting their responsibilities to an acceptable standard. This requires providing regular feedback, highlighting both successes and areas for improvement.

Ask yourself:
Do I actively hold employees accountable, or do I just hope they do their jobs well?

While trust is important, it is the manager’s responsibility to make sure the work is being done and done well. This sometimes means having tough conversations and making difficult decisions. It’s easy to give positive feedback, but how skilled are you at delivering constructive criticism?

The frequency of check-ins should match the employee’s level of competence. High performers might only need a quarterly check-in, while those struggling may require weekly—or even daily—feedback.

Providing constructive feedback is a critical skill, particularly when expectations aren’t being met or disruptive behaviors are present. It’s important to monitor not only for improvement but also how well the employee receives feedback. If you observe patterns of:
Blaming others
Rigidity
Difficulty managing emotions constructively

… you may be dealing with a High Conflict Personality (HCP). Recognizing this behavior and working with HR to mitigate its impact on the workplace is essential. Keep in mind, this behavior exists on a spectrum. Milder cases can be managed, but more severe cases require different strategies.

3. Ownership
The true beauty of employees who take ownership of their responsibilities is that they need less management. This frees up time for leaders to focus on growing the business and other leadership duties.

When employees take ownership, they feel empowered. It’s rewarding to be trusted with important work.

Reflect on this:
How many of my employees consistently take ownership of their responsibilities?

For those high performers who demonstrate ownership, be sure to acknowledge and reward their efforts. That’s the enjoyable side of management! But don’t let your time be consumed by the few employees causing the most issues.

By recognizing and rewarding the behavior and quality of work you want to see, you set a positive standard of accountability in the workplace.

 

Conflict Management

When people come together… conflict will happen.

Understanding conflict styles is a key component of conflict management.

We tend to think that others deal with conflict the same way we do… and then we are shocked when the “strategic” way we have chosen to deal with the difficult situation at hand, does not work.

Why is that?

It’s often because we are not using the same conflict style and/or are not aware that the person we are trying to resolve a problem with, is using a different style.

The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Model is useful to understand, when dealing with conflict. The model suggests that there are five different ways people deal with conflict.

I think we all want to cooperate, but left to our natural tendencies we often revert to the style of dealing with conflict that we learned growing up. And unless we had a perfect childhood (anyone, anyone?) it might not be all that useful as an adult!

So, it’s worth learning about the different conflict styles so we can understand our natural tendency, and notice where those around us are operating from. When we do that, we can have better outcomes. We can be sensitive to both the goals, and the people involved.

The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Model has stood the test of time. It was developed in the 1970’s and is still used today.

The 5 Conflict Styles are:

  1. Competing
  2. Avoiding
  3. Accommodating
  4. Collaborating
  5. Compromising

Each of these have elements of Assertiveness, and Cooperativeness. It’s interesting to think about how these different styles can interact with each other.  Here’s a chart from Management Weekly

You may want to think about a situation you are dealing with. Which of the following 5 conflict styles are at play?

High Assertive Styles

  1. Competing – Very direct and assertive.
  2. Collaborating – We use this when we feel we are on the same team. Teamwork and joint problem solving are at work

Low Assertive Styles

  1. Avoiding – Stepping away from the conflict altogether.
  2. Accommodating – One side accommodates the other side’s needs.

Compromising Style

  1. Compromising – This style involves finding middle ground and agreeing to disagree in certain areas, but coming together in others. The overall goal is met, both sides have won and lost something in the process. This style requires both sides to be moderately cooperative and moderately assertive.

    All the styles are useful, at times. When conflict is causing problems, it’s useful to take a step back and see how we can help manage the situation in a more productive manner, keeping the end goal in mind.

 

 

Autism Acceptance Month


You may have heard, it’s Autism Awareness Month. Some call it Autism Acceptance Month.
There are a lot of stereotypes around what Autism means. (Hint… it’s not just little boys obsessed with trains, who have meltdowns and can’t look you in the eye.)

A good way to learn more about Autism is from… Autistic people.

I just finished the book, Strong Female Character, by Fern Brady. Fern is a gifted comedian, and a late diagnosed (as an adult) Autistic woman. Her book made me laugh, cry, and think about all the unnecessary pain that so many Autistic people go through.

Most likely you know someone who’s neurodiverse. Maybe even yourself! Everyday people are learning about little challenges they have masked for so long, they don’t even realize they are doing it. To unmask is both liberating and scary. It’s an act of bravery and self-acceptance.

Living with Autism Spectrum Disorder (formerly known as Asperger’s Syndrome, or sometimes even the watered down more easily accessible label of Highly Sensitive Person) is to live with an invisible disability. When we take the time to learn about the challenges that someone living with ASD goes through, it leads to greater empathy.

Having empathy for people who go through life differently, is important. It means knowing that we will never truly understand want it is like to be them.

Having empathy means trusting the person to know what their needs are.

Having empathy means being open to accommodating those needs, even if they cause a slight inconvenience.

Having empathy means understanding that we are all doing the best we can, and giving each other as much grace as possible.

It’s also about recognizing the amazing strengths of the neurodiverse brain. As a wise woman once said, we need all the brains!

Here are some books and podcasts I recommend (all by Autistics themselves) if you are interested in learning more about what it is like to live as an Autistic person. There are amazing gifts to understand and appreciate, and also challenge areas to be aware of.

Books

Strong Female Character, By Fern Brady (also a great comedian BTW!)

Unmasking Autism, By Devon Price

Podcasts

Meet My Autistic Brain ,By a Female Autistic Lawyer

The Square Peg Podcast ,Conversations with Autistics

You Tube

I’m Autistic, Now What?

Orion Kelly – That Autistic Guy

 

Bringing Autism (and neurodiversity in general) Awareness into the Workplace…

I teach Empowering People in the Workplace skills. The EPW concept that is helpful here is Perception. We tend to think that others perceive the world in the same way we do. It is useful to question that assumption.

Autism Acceptance Month is a good time to remember that everyone has different perceptions, and sometimes they are based on our neurotype.

Why Hire a HR Consultant?

With so many payroll and benefit providers offering “free HR support included!” in their services, why would a small business pay for the support of a HR Consultant? Good question!

Here are my thoughts…

Those HR benefits the payroll and benefit companies offer ARE valuable. I’m always happy when my clients have these resources, and I help them use them to their fullest potential. But there is SO much more to HR!
  • HR training and coaching. As a former HR Dept of One, I train Office Managers, Operations Managers, and Owners, to have more confidence in the HR aspect of their role, even if they wear many hats.
  • HR Operations Support-  I know the pieces of the puzzle that should be there. I look for what’s working and what’s not, and help fill in the gaps.
  • Organization Development Support- I love working with clients to clarify and bring to life their core values, and weave them throughout their HR Systems. This helps their special and unique company culture to shine bright.
  • Difficult People/Workplace Disruptors- I love psychology and helping share tools to help leaders understand why people act the way they do. I blend this with my knowledge of risk management to help leaders feel more empowered in dealing with this common and frustrating part of the HUMAN part of HR.
  •  And last but not least… I’m less expensive than a labor law attorney. I’m a great safe place to discuss what is keeping you up at night in terms of employee issues. When necessary, I will suggest you bring in legal help. But often just having an outside HR expert to help you think strategically about next steps and to help bring in some HR best practices will help get things back on track.

 

Pride Month

June is Pride Month, and it’s a great time to consider what you are doing to foster a sense of belonging for all employees. Every organization is unique and it’s up to leaders to decide how to incorporate diversity, equity and inclusion (DEI), in a way that honors your unique workplace.

But what if you don’t have a DEI program? My advice is to do something. Anything is better than nothing! Mention pride month at a meeting. Bring in a rainbow dessert on a Friday. Put up some fun pride decorations in your office. Those are a few simple ideas. It’s ok to start small. Before you know it, DEI becomes a part of your everyday work culture. And that, after all is the goal!

 

Employee Appreciation

Do you have a culture of appreciation?

This week I’ve been starting off my client meetings with a question. “Who in your life are you appreciating right now?”

I’ve loved hearing the answers.

I’ve also asked how they think their company is at showing appreciation. Seems like the consensus is… there’s room for improvement!

Why is it important to show appreciation? I’ve thought a lot about this, and I think the simple answer is, it feeds the soul.

Think about how you feel when someone appreciates you. Do you feel seen? Do you feel like what you did made a difference in someone’s life? And then what? Does it make you want to keep doing whatever it was that preceded that appreciation? And how do you feel about the person who gave you this gift of appreciation?

I encourage all business leaders to really consider these questions.

The next step is to create a strategy around incorporating employee appreciation in the workplace. Here are a few ideas.

  • Start meetings with words of appreciation
  • Have an Appreciation Jar, provide a way for employees to appreciate each other
  • Host employee appreciation events
  • Write a thank you note
  • Take someone out to lunch and tell them what you appreciate about them

It’s important to remember that people are all different and like to be appreciated in different ways. A great book on this subject is The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace.

A Kinder Approach to Employee Discipline

I’m always looking for ways to help employees to be successful, and employers to get the work output they need, and to do it in a kind and respectful way. I think this article checks both boxes. If you are looking for a fresh approach to employee discipline, this SHRM article is well worth a read!

Understanding HSP’s in the Workplace

A highly sensitive person (HSP) is a term for those who are thought to have an increased or deeper central nervous system sensitivity to physical, emotional, or social stimuli.

According to Dr. Elaine Aron, clinical research psychologist and author of the national bestseller, The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You, people with this trait make up 15-20% of the population. Which means, HSP’s are in the workplace. And thank goodness they are!

Although HSP’s are often misunderstood, we are starting to understand how with just a little care, these people can truly make the workplace better. HSP’s do have some challenges that others don’t. They can get overstimulated easily by bright lights, loud noises, and a hectic workflow. However, with some minor adjustments, being more sensitive than others is not a bad thing. In fact, it is a very necessary thing. HSP’s bring some very positive traits to the workplace. They tend to be creative, good at seeing the big picture, inventive problem solvers, and have a very good eye for detail. They also tend to relate well to others and have a highly developed sense of empathy.

To learn more about the HSP trait, please visit, www.hsperson.com

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The Power of Habits

Have you given much thought to your daily habits? My favorite book on this subject is Atomic Habits, by James Clear.

Habits are so important for Leaders and Teams.

You can click on the link below to see the slides for a presentation I put together on effective habits. Enjoy!
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